If Life’s a Puzzle, What’s Your Big Picture?

Like jigsaw puzzle, the big picture of our lives consists of the little pieces of moment-by-moment decisions or choices we make. Your happiness in life relies on your ability to correctly put the pieces together. Put the right pieces together, and you have fulfillment or happiness in your life. On the other hand, the wrong pieces in your life can make you miserable. The bottom line is in the choices or decisions you are making right now.

Career, Family, Friends, Finances, Love life, Fun, Health, Personal Growth or your Physical Environment are some of the major pieces of the puzzle of your life.

Now you wouldn’t start putting a puzzle together without first looking at the big picture on the box. Would you? In this New Year, 2013, the first question you want to ask yourself is this: What is the big picture of my life?

I know you don’t want to have the same old results you got in 2012. So this means you need to create a different big picture so that the pieces fit together for your ultimate happiness. It’s your life, a real gift from the Creator. How do you want to live it? Sad, depressed, angry, disappointed, or do you want to live a fulfilling, exhilarating, passionate, purposeful and inspiring life? The secret is in the Big Picture. Get the picture?

The easiest way to get the big picture of your life is to have a sense of absolute clarity of your purpose. Ask yourself, “Why am I here? Why was I born?”

The answer or answers to this core question can be the deciding factor that changes your life forever. From this big picture, you can start assembling the pieces of your life puzzle. In order words, the choices you are making today are the pieces that create your destiny today and tomorrow.

We can all admit to making choices that didn’t necessarily bring us fulfilling results. In fact as a result of poor decisions or decision making, many of us have experienced or are experiencing serious nightmares costing us our health, loss of money, or broken relationships. The truth be said, most of our decisions in life are controlled not by logic, but Emotions.

Emotions make great servants, but terrible masters.

Yet most of us live at the mercy of individual or collective negative emotions that rob us of our true power or ability to meet our needs and create fulfilling lives. It doesn’t have to be this way. You deserve better. You have in you the power to start making new choices, putting the pieces together differently, and co-creating your life into a brilliant master piece.

“Know Thy Self,” is what the sages have said. Now that’s a good start. But Self- Mastery is the domain of champions. From the moment of conception, you are already a champion. Can you imagine the great race you won just to be here? Oh you have no idea. Do you? Out of 300 million sperms, you won! Ha…that’s like the entire population of the United States running a marathon, and you are the winner. Can you wrap your head around that for a second? See, you are a champ already!

You have the power to create a happier and more fulfilling life this 2013.

Here is an easy formula to help start you on designing and living the life you’ve really want:

  1. Choose what you will focus on at any given time or in any situation. Focus on the positive side of everything in your life.
  2. Move your body, change your posture, use your voice differently in ways that make you feel powerful, wise, healthy and wealthy.
  3. Meet your Needs, your truest heart’s desires, be gentle with yourself and quit numbing your happiness away.
  4. Seek help when you need it. Ask me or any other life coach, friend and family to support you. You are not alone and you shouldn’t live your life as though you are alone.
  5. Contact me for a Zero Cost “Rapid Change Coaching Session” where we will work together to…
  • Create a crystal clear vision or your ‘big picture’ for ‘ultimate success’ so you know exactly what you want, where you’re headed, and what you need to do to make it happen.
  • Uncover hidden challenges that may be sabotaging your ability to make changes that last or that are slowing down your progress
  • Leave this session renewed, re-energized, and inspired to finally achieve the change you seek- once and for all

You can’t change your past, but the choices you make today can create a better tomorrow.

It’s my honor to support you in putting the pieces of your puzzle together with clear vision of your big picture.

To take advantage of this offer, simply click the link below and fill in the short form. I am cheering you on. Live on Fire!

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The A-B-C of Ultimate Fulfillment

Have you ever felt like you are treading water in your life, relationships, career or business? I mean are you working your tail off, trying everything else out there from some expert or guru but still getting nowhere only to be left with the sinking feelings of frustration, overwhelm, depression, lack of drive or just out-of-options? Well, it happened to me too and please don’t beg me to tell you about it now, you might laugh too hard. Good news is I learned the 3-step formula that has helped many world-class achievers, and it changed my life, relationship, and career forever. Let’s call it “The A-B-C of Ultimate Fulfillment.”

It is so simple that you might kick yourself because you already intuitively know it, but you’re just not applying it YET. With this 3-step formula, a hungry attitude, and an opened mind you can immediately start enjoying delightful, happy, fulfilling results in your Life, Relationships (personal & professional), Career or Business. Remember I said it’s really simple? Believe me, it is. But before I tell you about it I’ve got one question for you, and please answer to yourself honestly. Are you really tired of hurting or suffering in that area of your life or do you still want to stay in it to figure it all out on your own like a tough person? Are you an opened minded person or are you the “I-know-it-all” kind? Are you really hungry for complete happiness and fulfillment in your life or are you just out to get some quick bandage for your pain? Ha, I know that was more than one question, wasn’t it. I just had to be sure. Alright are you ready for this life changing info? Ok, ok, ok, I’ll cut the goofing off and get to the point. Here goes it.

A. Your Guiding Values/Beliefs System

B. Your Burning Needs

C. Your Consistent Emotions/Emotional State

Bring great clarity and quality into those three areas and your life with all you do will be transformed forever for the better. It’s like switching the lights on in a pitch dark room. You see we all are driven by very strong Needs, Values or Beliefs, and some pretty powerful Emotions. The quality of your life, relationships, business or career is in direct proportion to the quality you have in any of those three departments, “The A-B-C of Ultimate Fulfillment.”

So all you need in order to be, do and have ultimate fulfillment in every aspect of your life is, #1., to fully understand where you are right now when it comes to your highest Needs, your habitual Emotions, and your deepest Values; #2., get really clear in your decisions about what you really, really want, what your truest values, priorities or beliefs are and if they’re bringing joy into your life now or not; and then, #3., create a strategy to start taking ACTION NOW and don’t stop until you see the sun rise in the dawn of a new day in your life. I promise you, you can do this! You have a giant in you, even if it’s sleeping now, it’s still a giant! Wake-up that monstrous power-house in you, and you will watch all of your self-imposed limitations (part of your belief system) fall away as you drive your life into the sunrise of your happiness. Can you see it? How about it? What are you thinking now? Are you hearing those voices in your head again!? You know. Those that say, “You’re not good enough,” “you’re not smart enough,” “you don’t have time or much education like…them,” “you’re fat and out of shape,” “you’re ugly,” “you’re poor and broke,” or “no one will help you.”

Shhhh, I won’t tell anyone you hear voices if you promise not to tell anyone I hear them too. Or you might be asking, “Roland how can I really know what I want, what are my beliefs or real values, and how can I fully understand my emotions?” I say you have already started doing the right thing here. You are asking questions! Ha, see I told you you’re a genius. Now just remember that the quality of your answers directly depends on the quality of your questions. What do I mean? Well, it goes without saying that if we ask lousy questions we’ll get lousy answers. For example, you could ask, “Why do I always get in a relationship with jerks?” And one of those voices would say, “Because you’re stupid and hard to learn.” Or you could ask a new question like, “What do I really want in a relationship in order for me to be happy and how exactly can I have a happy relationship.” You’re still on the same topic of relationship, but two different questions and very different results. Got it? See, I knew you would get it. Ok stay with me here for some more questions even if they make you feel embarrassed. This is just between you and me anyway, so what the heck.

Ok what do you believe about money? What? I know it’s none of my business, but I’m just curious here. Are your beliefs about money causing money to keep running away from you like the “The Run Away Bride?” How about your body weight, personal image or self-esteem? Yes, I did open that Pandora’s Box, didn’t I. Are you still with me here? Yes? Good. I’m glad you’re still here because I’m getting pretty darn scared myself. And I need your help. Let’s keep an open mind here. Ok? Do you consider yourself a thin and physically fit man or woman who is currently packing on a few pounds soon to come off, or do you consider yourself a fat person who is hoping, dieting, or working hard to lose the body weight? Your answer here will reveal how you really look at yourself by way of identity and it will directly affect the results you get. The identity you have come to give yourself is a reflection of your belief system about yourself and the world. The only question is, are you happy with the results of your current beliefs about you and/or the world? If your answer to that last question is NO, I say don’t fret. Help is available and you have all the power and resources to turn it all around. Asking these questions help us to open our eyes to see if our so-called ‘comfort zone’ is really comfortable or NOT. And if you are candid here you will agree that many times it’s tough for us to ask ourselves these questions and truly answer them. At least not until the suffering becomes too unbearable or the bottom falls out. That’s where a skilled ‘success buddy’ comes in handy. You don’t have to wait for the bottom to fall out before you decide to start making changes that will take you towards your dreams, your goals, your success, your purpose, and ultimate fulfillment. I will absolutely, positively like to support you on your life adventure full of exciting new discoveries.

As your success partner or coach, I will facilitate you bringing clarity into your personal values, needs and habitual emotional state; I will help you create strategies that are true to who you are and that you are really excited about; I will help you put in place a MAP (Massive Action Plan) that’s easy to implement and saves you time, money, energy, sleepless nights, and stress while also helping gain momentum, lots of energy, stronger drive and fulfillment from achieving your life, relationship, business or career dreams. You can truly be, do and have all that you really desire! But you must start NOW. Procrastination is a form of cancer to your dreams and happiness. Act NOW. I am making myself with my professional expertise available to you FREE for A FREE STRATEGY SESSION (with no strings attached). Why am I doing this? Thanks for asking and I’m glad to tell you. You see so many people have helped me become who I am today and who I continue to be. I promised myself and all of them I will continue to pay-it-forward. And one of them just threatened to have me locked up if I didn’t do something about paying-it-forward. So here I am. Ha ha ha. You can read more about my story when you visit my website at www.geicoaching.com , www.rolandkemokai.com. Ok the real and deeper reason why I am doing this is because I deeply and passionately care about you even without knowing you on a detailed personal level. But that doesn’t matter, you are my brother or sister, and serving you is my ultimate life purpose and fulfillment.

Your NEXT Step is to get your Free and Confidential Strategy Session by clicking here, fill out the proper info and I will contact you as soon as possible. If you have any questions or comments, please email me at roland@geicoaching.com or call me directly at 704-299-4818 or 512-622-1362. I look forward to connecting with you soon! And until we do, Unleash Your Power and Live on Fire!!